tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1102126498629529342.post196308796765039708..comments2023-06-14T10:02:17.797-05:00Comments on In Haught Pursuit: Going UnderWendy Haughthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03224112973689131637noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1102126498629529342.post-44578927090320757972009-08-28T10:11:34.057-05:002009-08-28T10:11:34.057-05:00Love you, Bev!
You remind me of something Susan H...Love you, Bev!<br /><br />You remind me of something Susan Haught said: that the pain/grief has to move through and out of you.Wendy Haughthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03224112973689131637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1102126498629529342.post-73539220106264320332009-08-28T10:03:16.129-05:002009-08-28T10:03:16.129-05:00Miss Wen, I LOVE your mix of humor and grief. Alth...Miss Wen, I LOVE your mix of humor and grief. Although the balance is individual, for me, portions of levity (from those allowed in my most intimate circle of grieving friends and family) has helped stabilize my grieving, which threatened to drown me at times. Although I don't plan on launching into a cuss fest (and I know you won't, either) just the line about cussing and carbs made me laugh - and relate. How DO you launch those overwhelming emotions into space? Laughing out loud or imagining myself hurling epithets into the void helps me realize that the grief is not ME, just something I have to pass through -perhaps for a very, very long time, but with humorous 'pit stops' along the way.Fotofulehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10873725565813014051noreply@blogger.com